Day 77: Your Husband Will Never Tell You This
Warning: this is a very disturbing video. Not for the faint of heart or women who consider the truth too painful to hear. But for the brave and those who are ready to face facts, this could change your life.
Wow! This is not the way it is with me! You should see how my husbands walks around. Even after some christian counseling, (he’s not a church goer)he refuses to change. My husband gets up first thing in the morning and puts on a dirty looking old gray vest, nothing under it at all and puts a wad of chewing tobacco in his mouth and starts to chump down and spit….nothing too attactive about that at all now is there? Did I mention he’s now retired and the only time he smells really good is when he goes out to play cards with the guys or has somewhere to go where a shower is a necessity. I do keep myself looking really good and I’m not overweight either but that won’t change the way he is and always has been…no romance here…so how about women who deal with men like this after 17 years of marriage? Life goes on…
And yes I know..I need to continue to pray and not for him as much as for myself that I would learn to accept this and not allow it to bother me so much…it could be much worse I guess.
Donna, I feel your heartache. Yes sometimes it is the husband who “let’s himself go” I hope many women read of your anguish and recognize the emotional cruelty involved when you “let yourself go” Just as it hurts your heart, it hurts the man’s heart, too. I hope a woman who has “let herself go” will finally HEAR, thru your post, the pain she is inflicting on her spouse.
Now, of course, you need to find healing for yourself. But you don’t need me to tell you that. you already know. I hope you are working thru the 90-Day Renewal day by day. It will help you. Also, check out my book, This Isn’t the Life I Signed Up For…but I’m Finding Hope & Healing